Perhaps the most common way to customize your ceremony, writing your own vows can really add to the meaning and sentiment of your promise to one another.
The commitment you make can be as brief or as extensive as you want as this is, for most couples, the most important part of the ceremony. If you have ideas about just what you'd like to say to each other, great! If some assistant would be beneficial, I can work with each of you to share samples and ideas, or I can prompt your thinking with some key questions and help write the vows with you.
Whether you want to memorize your vows, repeat them after me, or have a written version to read aloud, it's the sentiment and the love you put into your vows that's most important and will let your spouse know the intentions of your heart.
The commitment you make can be as brief or as extensive as you want as this is, for most couples, the most important part of the ceremony. If you have ideas about just what you'd like to say to each other, great! If some assistant would be beneficial, I can work with each of you to share samples and ideas, or I can prompt your thinking with some key questions and help write the vows with you.
Whether you want to memorize your vows, repeat them after me, or have a written version to read aloud, it's the sentiment and the love you put into your vows that's most important and will let your spouse know the intentions of your heart.